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"GROW UP"
(Studies in Ephesians - 7)

02/15/04  The Rev. Alan Jackson

Ephesians 4:1-16

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(Ephesians 4:1-16) 1I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, 2with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, 3making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. 4There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to the one hope of your calling, 5one Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and in all.
 
7But each of us was given grace according to the measure of Christ's gift. 8Therefore it is said,

"When he ascended on high he made captivity itself a captive;
he gave gifts to his people."

9(When it says, "He ascended," what does it mean but that he had also descended into the lower parts of the earth? 10He who descended is the same one who ascended far above all the heavens, so that he might fill all things.) 11The gifts he gave were that some would be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers, 12to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, 13until all of us come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to maturity, to the measure of the full stature of Christ. 14We must no longer be children, tossed to and fro and blown about by every wind of doctrine, by people's trickery, by their craftiness in deceitful scheming. 15But speaking the truth in love, we must grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every ligament with which it is equipped, as each part is working properly, promotes the body's growth in building itself up in love.
 
   

SERMON

Talking with his disciples, Jesus asked them, "Who do people say the Son of Man is?" They replied, "Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets." Then he brought it all home. "But what about you?" he asked. "Who do you say I am?" In a sense that is the central question of faith, and I encourage you to take that question very personally. But think before you speak; because your answer to that question can be as revealing as almost anything you could say about yourself.
 
Karl Barth used to say, "Tell me who Jesus is to you, and I will tell you who you are." Barth was saying that who you are, and therefore how you act, is shaped by what you believe. So, having talked in the first half of this letter about who Christ is to us, Paul will turn now to who we are to him, and therefore how we are to act as his men and women. Having talked doctrine, now it's time to turn to ethics.
 
So the letter turns from preaching to teaching, from praising God for revealing the mystery of his plan for us, to exhorting us to live lives that honor that plan. How, then, are Christians supposed to live? Well, the first sixteen verses of chapter 4 describe the church at its best, and it can be summed up in a simple formula: unity + diversity = maturity. Verses 3-6 talk about our unity in the body of Christ. Verses 7-12 talk about the diversity of our gifts and functions. And verses 13-16 describe the maturity that can come of it.
 
Paul begins by urging us, in light of all that God has done for us, to live a life worthy of our calling. Having told the drama of God's grace, he asks us, in effect, "Therefore, given God's love, how then are we to love? Given God's wisdom, how are we to think? Given God's intent, how then are we to behave?" Paul urges us to live the kind of life that God intends, and not to settle for anything less. And in verse 2 he lists the virtues that make that kind of life possible. He says, "Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love."
 
"Be humble," he says. What does that word mean? True humility can only come from self-knowledge. You really can't be humble if you don't admit who you are. And if you do admit who you are, you can't help but be humble. Paul says here, "Be completely humble." But for many people, self-knowledge can be a frightening prospect. Set aside the idea of revealing ourselves to someone else. I wonder how well we would handle a really thorough self-examination. If you have ever taken a long, hard look at yourself without covering up anything (I mean ruthlessly baring yourself, body and soul, to yourself) you know what a traumatic experience that can be. Imagine what it would be like to be that utterly transparent with someone else. That's a scary thought. So out of a primal need for self-preservation we'll clothe ourselves with a persona or an image we can live with – as well as one that we think others will find acceptable.
 
But humility as it's used here is one of those Christian virtues that gives us the courage to say, in effect, "Here I am, warts and all. I may not measure up to your expectations of what I should be. I know I don't measure up to mine – or to God's. And it's not that I'm proud of what I am, or that I have no desire to improve. I'm a work in progress, and I pray God isn't finished with me yet. But what you see is who I am, and that's all I can offer you right now." That's humility, and it's not a virtue for the weak. It takes strength of character to truly bare your soul.
 
"Be gentle," he says. What does that word mean? Gentleness is like humility in that it, too, requires strength of character. Aristotle defined a virtue as the mean between two extremes. And so gentleness, he said, was the balance-point between being too angry and never being angry. For Aristotle, a truly gentle person could express indignation at the wrongs suffered by others, yet maintain a capacity to take personal wrongs with great self-restraint.
 
There's another sense in which gentleness is like humility. Just as true humility can admit my weaknesses without becoming morbidly self-abasing, so true gentleness can admit my strengths without becoming obnoxiously egotistical. Have you noticed how genuinely gentle people have a strength about them? They don't seem anxious about protecting their territory. Elbert Hubbard said it so well: "The strong can always afford to be gentle. Only the weak are intent on giving as good as they get." We need gentleness, as well as humility, in the church.
 
Then there's makroqumia - the Greek word translated "patient." Makro means "great" and qumia means "burning." Loosely translated, it means having a slow fuse – burning long and slow before exploding. That virtue of patience has all sorts of applications. But in the New Testament it refers specifically to patience with people. Chrysostom, the 5th Century saint, defined patience as "having the power to take revenge without doing it." God knows we need patience in the church.
 
Paul then adds another dimension to patience when he talks about "bearing with one another in love." That phrase means much more than simply putting up with others. It implies bearing a part of those persons' burdens along with them. For some people that may be a radically new way of looking at the business of "bearing with" someone.
 
Tim Hansel writes with great insight: One of the most common and naïve sentences in the English language is the following: "If I can just get through this problem, then everything will be all right." There comes a time, and it may well be the birth of maturity, when we realize that once we get through our present problem there will be another one, slightly larger and a little more intense, waiting to take its place. Problems are the litmus paper of the human story. How we respond to them may well be a measure of our health.
 
Let's be honest. Every one of us carries burdens, many of which we never allow others to know about, let alone bear with us. It doesn't have to be that way. When we make that first tentative offer to share our burden with another or to shoulder part of the other one's load, we're taking a huge step toward the unity that Paul is talking about here.
 
That's why he goes on to plead with us to "make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." - "Make every effort," he says. Those virtues of humility and gentleness and patience and bearing with each other in love – they don't just "happen." They have to be cultivated. So Paul tells us to make every effort because it will take every effort to maintain that kind of community that will put whatever strengthens the body of Christ ahead of self-interest.
 
Then, at verse 4 Paul begins a sentence in which he uses the word "one" seven times in a row to describe the unique character of the Christian community. It's a kind of literary "tour de force" of the unity that is ours in the body of Christ.
 
First, there is one body, he says – and that means the one body of which Christ is the head. And it needs to be one, because it's impossible for the head to manage a body that's fragmented.
 
Second, there is one Spirit. The Greek word that Paul uses here means both "spirit" and "breath." Paul says that, just as breath is utterly essential to life, there is no life in the church without the Spirit.
 
Third, there is one hope to which we have been called. Despite all of the vastly different ways Christians act and think and organize and prioritize and express themselves, we all operate out of one hope: that the world will come to Christ to be redeemed and made perfect.
 
Fourth, there is one Lord, says Paul – a name that means both master and sovereign. Here we have a clear restatement of perhaps the earliest confession of the Church: "Jesus Christ is Lord."
 
Fifth, there is one faith. The word here doesn't refer to one creed or one doctrine. It means "one commitment." In this case you might put it "there is one supreme loyalty."
 
Sixth, there is one baptism. Christians aren't the only ones who have historically practiced baptism. What makes Christian baptism one-of-a-kind is that it is the sign of a life that is claimed by God and committed to Christ.
 
And seventh, there is one God. But this isn't simply a creedal affirmation that there is only one true God. Paul says that this one God is our Father who is not only in control, but is intimately involved in our lives. Our unity is grounded in the conviction that we live in a world that is created, controlled, sustained and loved by God.
 
Now, having made his case for our unity, Paul is ready to tackle our diversity. So at verse 7 he begins to talk about the ways in which we have been gifted so differently. But notice how, at the outset, he uses that quotation from Psalm 68 to remind us that, like a conquering king returning from battle and dividing the spoils of war, each of us is given a gift "as Christ apportioned it." In other words, "When you start talking about your gifts, don't ever forget who gave them to you."
 
That's why Paul goes on in verse 11 to say, "It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets…" and so on. As we review these assigned gifts, keep in mind that Paul's list here, like his lists of gifts in Romans 12 or 1 Corinthians 12, isn't meant to be exhaustive. He is simply making a case for the necessary diversity of gifts in the body of Christ. To put it bluntly, we can't all be the C.E.O. any more than we can all be workers waiting around for someone to give us direction.
 
Paul says that Christ "gave some to be apostles" – that is, those who were gifted with organizational authority from the start. There are branches of the church where apostolic succession and authority are still important.
 
He "gave some to be prophets." Whether in the Old or the New Testament, prophets were those who spoke directly for God to specific situations and needs. There's certainly a need for a prophetic voice even today.
 
He "gave some to be evangelists." Like the prophets, they were footloose First Century prototypes of today's missionaries who take the evangel (literally the "good news") to those who've never heard it.
 
And he "gave some to be pastors and teachers" – the twin category of those relatively settled leaders in a community who were gifted to not only teach but to shepherd. Of course, the critical question that wants to be answered here is "Why – Why did he give some to be pastors and teachers?" The answer comes clearly in verse 12: "…to prepare God's people for works of service" (i.e., "with a view to equipping the saints for service.")
 
Now, it may not have occurred to some of you that this is nothing short of radical teaching to some Christians. In fact, I suspect there are many people who hold the notion that ministry is the stuff that pastors do, while the members and friends of the church are those who are ministered to. In a society that puts a premium on consumer satisfaction that idea may be particularly popular today.
 
Let me assure you that there's nothing wrong with that setup – as long as it doesn't stop there. Paul clearly says that Christ gave some to be pastors and teachers to minister to the flock. However, he is equally clear that the purpose of this ministry of word and sacrament and nurture and shepherding is to "prepare God's people for works of service" – that is, to equip them for those ministries that they alone can perform. This is the scriptural foundation of the Reformed doctrine of the priesthood of all believers.
 
Paul goes on. He says that God's people need to be prepared for works of service "so that the body of Christ may be built up." Here we have his ecclesiastical body fitness plan. If a church has strong active leaders who are doing all the work, the rest of the body is likely to be out of shape. If only a part of the body is exercising, it will be lopsided and ineffective. Which is why at verse 13 he says that this equipping and building up has to continue until we have all reached that level of spiritual maturity he calls "the fullness of Christ."
 
Now, notice how he's come full-circle. He began with a focus on unity. Then he noted the need for diversity. But when we have unity in Christ, we can embrace and celebrate each other's individuality. The bottom line is this. When you have a healthy diversity that is grounded in fundamental unity, the result is maturity.
 
And so, in verses 14-16 Paul gives us a picture of what a spiritually mature fellowship looks like. In verse 14 he says that we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by crafty teaching. He's talking about a church that is innocent but not gullible. A mature Christian fellowship will be teachable – in fact they'll be eager to learn. But they will also insist on intellectual and moral and spiritual integrity in the stuff they're taught.
 
In verse 15 he talks about "speaking the truth in love." A mature Christian fellowship will be characterized by honesty and candor but not brutality. You can speak the truth in a way that is devastating. It takes spiritual maturity to say what needs to be said with true agape love.
 
Finally, in verses 15-16 he talks about growing up into Christ. He says that Christ is the Head, and he acknowledges that the church would be lost without him. And yet he ends by saying that the body "grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work." A mature Christian fellowship is utterly dependent on Christ, yet it is profoundly interdependent. Does that describe this church? In some respects, yes. In other ways, we still have a long way to go. But the Lord has given no indication that he's giving up on us. So I for one am committed to stay the course and see us grow up in Christ. What about you?
 
Paul has been talking here about how God expects us to behave corporately. Now he will turn our attention to how we are to behave individually. So your assignment for this next week is the last half of chapter 4.
 

amen

     

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