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"PROMISES TO KEEP"

08/22/04  The Rev. Alan Jackson

John 21:15-19

Scripture Reading

(John 21:15-19) 15When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon son of John, do you truly love me more than these?"
 
"Yes, Lord," he said, "you know that I love you."
 
Jesus said, "Feed my lambs."
 
16Again Jesus said, "Simon son of John, do you truly love me?"
 
He answered, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you."
 
Jesus said, "Take care of my sheep."
 
17The third time he said to him, "Simon son of John, do you love me?"
Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, "Do you love me?" He said, "Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you."
 
Jesus said, "Feed my sheep. 18I tell you the truth, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go." 19Jesus said this to indicate the kind of death by which Peter would glorify God. Then he said to him, "Follow me!"
 
   

SERMON

Late in his career, the Apostle Peter wrote two pastoral letters that are full of wisdom. You know, when an old veteran speaks, we do well to pay close attention. Because often, as they reflect on a life of service, they drop some priceless gems of insight. But I've found that their value isn't so much to be found in the words themselves. Oh, the words stand on their own merit, of course. But those insights are priceless because of the experiences that have shaped them. They have the solid ring of truth because they are offered by people who have lived the truth of those words.
 
Peter's first letter is like that. Let me mention just four memorable one-liners, four brief exhortations that could each qualify as a gem of sage advice. He writes in 5:5, "Clothe yourselves with humility." In 4:7 he says, "Be clear-minded and alert." In 3:15 he writes, "Always be prepared to give an answer for your faith." And in 5:2 he says, "Be shepherds of God's flock." Four simple pieces of homespun – solid advice offered gently by an old man to those who needed to hear them. But those four exhortations become infinitely more meaningful when you're aware of the experiences behind them.
 
"Clothe yourselves with humility," Peter wrote. How appropriate for him to put it that way. I say that because of a memorable night when Peter had watched Jesus take a towel and use it as an apron – so the image of being "clothed" with humility would be with him forever. It was John, you probably know, who recalled the incident in his Gospel. Knowing that in a few hours he and his disciples would be wrenched apart, Jesus showed them the strength of humility by rising from the table, wrapping a towel around his waist, and proceeding to wash his disciple's feet.
 
But when it came Peter's turn, the proud disciple refused. (Peter had always had a problem with humility.) Jesus said to him, "Peter, if you refuse this offer, if you reject me in this, then you have rejected our friendship – our fellowship – our relationship." That was more than Peter could bear. "Please, Lord," he said, "wash me."
 
Peter learned some lessons about humility that night that shaped his life forever. For one thing he learned that he was most like Jesus when he was clothed with humility. He learned that our first duty to Christ is to obey him, rather than trying to impose our will on him (even if it is our good will). Perhaps most important, Peter learned that faith begins not when we serve him, but when we allow him to serve us. Those are hard lessons to learn – and too easily forgotten. Peter reminds us, "Clothe yourselves with humility."
 
Peter also wrote, "Be clear minded and alert." I suppose you could read that as though it were simply a variation on the Scout motto, "Be Prepared." But there's much more to it. Behind Peter's words was the memory of a time when he was anything but clear-minded and alert. In fact he had fallen asleep on the job. It had happened in the Garden of Gethsemane, the same night of his foot washing, only later. Peter, along with James and John, had gone with Jesus for a time of prayer and soul-searching. Three times, before going off to wrestle with his Father, Jesus had told them to watch and pray. Three times he had come back to find them asleep.
 
This wasn't like falling asleep at the symphony and being elbowed by your wife and told to "wake up and try to look interested." If ever Jesus had needed the support of his friends it was right then. But to their shame he found he had to face that anguish alone. Peter told his younger Christian friends to be clear minded and alert in their prayers. His words had great impact because he himself had failed at the crucial time and had fallen asleep. They recognized his heart in his words, because it had been aching.
 
There's a third word of counsel from Peter: "Always be prepared to give an answer for your faith." Think about the experiences that lay behind those words. Peter remembered how, that same night, Jesus had been arrested. As our Lord stood trial in the high priest's house, Peter waited in the courtyard by the fire, trying to remain inconspicuous. But someone there recognized him. He denied it. And when his Galilean accent gave him away, did he then make his defense? No, the sorry fact is that he broke into a string of foul language and denied that he had ever known this criminal, Jesus.
 
Peter wrote, "Always be prepared to give an answer for your faith." Those are really rather ordinary words of good advice – that is, until you connect them to the experiences that lie behind them. Then you begin to understand the bitter tears of remorse he had shed, and how they infused those words with pathos and urgency.
 
And here's one more exhortation from Peter, now older and wiser. "Be shepherds of God's flock," he wrote. Those are certainly words of sound pastoral advice. But behind them lay the memory of a time on the shore of the Sea of Galilee, after the resurrection. Seven of the disciples, including Peter, had gone fishing. The risen Lord Jesus met them. They had breakfast together. Then Jesus and Peter took a walk. Three times Jesus asked Peter, "Do you love me?" Three times Peter had confessed his love. And three times Jesus had replied, "Feed my lambs – Take care of my sheep – feed my flock."
 
And that's exactly what Peter did. By the time Peter wrote the words, "Be shepherds of God's flock," he was an old man. From the day Jesus reclaimed him until the day he died, Peter had faithfully done what Jesus commissioned him to do. He was a good shepherd. So his simple sounding words of advice carried weight because they had grown out of a lifetime of obedience.
 
Clothe yourselves with humility. Be clear-minded and alert. Always be prepared to give an answer for your faith. Be shepherds of God's flock. Four simple exhortations – but they don't seem quite as simple when you know the stories behind them. But I wonder, apart from the obvious meaning of the sayings themselves, might there be some lessons we can learn growing out of those stories behind them? I think so. Let me suggest four lessons.
 
One thing we can learn is that truth may be free, but that doesn't mean it's cheap. Do you know what the truth cost Peter? The reason why Peter's words have the ring of truth is because he had invested his whole life in them. That's what it cost him.
 
Some people imagine that what we call the "truth" is nothing more than facts and information lying around waiting to be picked up by anyone who feels inclined to do so. Facts may be like that – but truth isn't. The truth is available to anyone who wants it, but the only way you can possess it is by building it into your life.
 
For example, I could tell you to "live one day at a time." How many times have you heard someone say that? It sounds like good advice. But the words themselves may never mean any more than just that: good sounding advice. The truth of those words is only known by those who live that way.
 
I know men and women for whom living "one day at a time" isn't a platitude – it's the only way they can live. Life is so precarious that about all they can count on is one day at a time. Some of them live in such a way that they bear eloquent witness to the daily grace of God in ways that nobody else can. When they speak, they speak with authority. That's why people who have lived with cancer for a long time are such great encouragers to those who have just been told they have the disease. The truth they can share is given freely – but it isn't cheap. In fact, it's priceless.
 
A second lesson we can take away from these stories is the great value of winning our defeats. If you've been watching the Olympics you know how difficult it is sometimes to win our victories. Going for the gold demands all the discipline and strength we have. But hard as it is to win our victories, it's infinitely harder to win our defeats.
 
All four of those exhortations reminded Peter of his failure. He had failed to understand what Jesus was about with the basin and towel. He had fallen asleep when Jesus needed his supportive friendship. He had betrayed his Lord by denying his faith. And those three times of affirming his love were tied to his threefold denial.
 
Yet instead of a bitter old man bemoaning his failures, we find Peter writing to his flock, steadying them with his calmness, his courage, his wisdom. Peter had grown up – just as Jesus had said he would. Winning our victories can make us self-sufficient, perhaps even arrogant and impatient with others. But winning his defeats had brought Peter to a level of maturity rich with long patience, and deep humility, and arms-open-wide compassion.
 
A third lesson that we can take from these stories is that we're not always at our best when we feel our best. Feelings are essential, but sometimes our feelings mislead us – even contradict our true condition. There are times when we may feel badly, yet we're at our spiritual best. Other times we may feel at our best when we're really at our worst.
 
Peter had said to Jesus that night, "Everyone else may deny you, but I never will!" All the disciples agreed. They felt confident – even a bit heroic. But it was their feeling of confidence that blinded them to their capacity for treachery. All too soon every one of the men would learn the truth about themselves, and it would hurt. But though they would feel miserable, it would be the beginning of honest faith (although they weren't aware of it at the time).
 
The same is true with us. Sometimes we're at our best spiritually without even knowing it. Sensitive people often feel badly. Insensitive people frequently don't have enough imagination to feel miserable about anything. Arrogant extroverts might just feel good about everything – including their sins. Their feelings say absolutely nothing about their character.
 
That's because feelings are not always determined by our spiritual condition. Quite often its things like age, physical health, finances, temperament and social circumstances that shape how we feel; and those things may have little or nothing to do with our spiritual health. The fact is that simple lack of exercise can make us spiritually depressed. When we're tired, when we're drained because of illness, we can doubt the worth of our faith. The old spiritual tells the truth with easy clarity: "Sometimes I'm up, sometimes I'm down. O yes, Lord. Sometimes I'm almost to the ground – O yes, Lord!" If we'll remember that that's how life goes, maybe we won't be so inclined to allow our feelings to lead us to unwise and unsafe conclusions. Far healthier to affirm the fact that we're loved, even when we don't feel we are – that we're forgiven, even when we have no sense of it – and however we may feel, obedience is still a live option.
 
The truth may be free but it's not cheap. The real champions of faith are those who win their defeats. How we feel doesn't necessarily reflect how we are. And here's one last lesson. These stories teach us about the wonder of our Lord's friendship.
 
At the end of Mark's Gospel you will find two of the tenderest words of kindness in the Bible. The women had come to the empty tomb on Easter morning. They were met by a messenger dressed in white who said, "You're looking for Jesus… He is risen… He's not here… Now go, tell his disciples and Peter…" Those two words, "and Peter," were our Lord's tender tribute to this idealistic, impressionable, vulnerable, impulsive big fisherman who, for all his faults, loved his Lord deeply, and put his whole heart into everything. And so Jesus sent a personal invitation: "Tell Peter that we'll meet in Galilee."
 
Galilee – that's where it had all started for Peter. What seemed like a lifetime ago, there on the lakeshore, Jesus had called Peter with the words, "Follow me." Now it was time to return to Galilee – time for a new beginning. There was another walk together along the lakeshore. Three times Jesus would ask him, "Peter, do you love me?" Why three times? Three times Peter had fallen asleep. Three times Peter had denied his Lord. Now it was time for a threefold confession of love.
 
According to John's Gospel that conversation ended with Jesus saying to Peter, "Follow me." The same words that had called Peter to discipleship a lifetime ago were calling him again. After all his denial and betrayal, our Lord still wanted him. And when Jesus said once more to Peter, "Follow me," he gave him back his life.
 
Right here is what makes Jesus' grace so amazing. It's not that he offers his friendship when we've done well – as a reward. It's not that he offers his grace when we can be proud of ourselves – when we're confident. It's when there's not much left in us but shame and regret that Jesus comes to us, and speaks our name, and calls us friend, and says once more, "Follow me."
 
"Follow me," he says to Peter and us. But now the following will be different. Now we understand more clearly that what saves us isn't our commitment to him but his commitment to us. It isn't our confidence but his compassion. It isn't being sure of our faith in him, but being sure of his faithfulness to us. Peter promised Jesus that day that he would follow him – and so he did. We all have promises to keep. So has Jesus. And here's the wonder: all of our promises will be kept by the strength of his. Let's pray:

O Jesus, Thou hast promised to all who follow thee
That where thou art in glory there shall thy servants be;
And Jesus, I have promised to serve thee to the end.
O give me grace to follow, my Master and my Friend.

 

amen

     

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